It's been almost two years since I posted a blog post and I am very sorry to have not written for so long. I have decided to put up new posts consistently so that I reach my target of inspiring and touching lives of others, even in the slightest way possible. The very thought of me making the smallest of change in someone's life lights me up and gives me a reason to keep exploring life and keep moving on.
I learnt that in life, you come across a lot of people - some stay, some leave in peace, some wreak havoc on you and eventually leave or stay in your life to wreak havoc on a daily basis. Life's experiences taught me that we as humans, love challenges. We fall in love with the people who don't care about us, we care for friends who'll never think twice before turning their back on us, we cling to people who don't deserve to be held on to. We love doing this so much that want to take this challenge for the rest of our lives, to hold on to and change people who don't care about us. Because if they truly cared, you wouldn't ever have to ask them to change. They change because they truly love you and want to be a better version of themselves for you. Also if you loved them unconditionally, you wouldn't want them to be any different. Isn't it?
My sincere request to you is that never turn your back on people who love you unconditionally. It's okay if you don't want to love them back! But you don't have to walk all over their fragile hearts and shatter them for life. That's the worse way to return the love that someone was giving you. Because when people truly love you, they open up their hearts, their deepest fears and desires to you. And what you do when someone loves you truly, defines you as a person. You may have whatever reasons to turn them down or shoo them away from your life - whether you do the same with feelings based in love or hate is a choice you make. All these choices add up to your character. How bad can it get if someone reciprocates hate for love?
You may have whatever reasons to hold back love or to respond with hate. But you have no right to break a loving heart by turning cold or disrespecting them in any way. We all have had challenges, we all have had a tough life and we all have faced rejections from people we have loved. How did that feel? If it felt great, by all means go do that with every single person who cares for you. If it doesn't feel great about being on the receiving end of rejection and hate, you don't want to give it to people who care for you! They are the only people who'll stand by you, come what may! They are the last people you need to judge or bully. Make them stay!
So my dear readers, LOVE! Because LOVE IS THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING. LOVE is all there is! In the presence of love, no opposites exist. LOVE transforms lives, it dissolves grudges that have been nurtured for decades, it makes life so unbelievably simple! Give LOVE a chance and see your agonies evaporate. May you heal & be healed by LOVE!
